Worst movie I have ever seen. Press J to jump to the feed. No amount of picking your ex's brain will result in any sort of meaningful answers to the questions that plague you. Sometimes the grass is greener because there is greener grass there. I left my girlfriend of 5 and a half years because I let myself be convinced I could "do better". At some point or another, you've probably heard the old saying "the grass is greener on the other side" — and it's pretty likely that you heard it used in the context of dating and relationships. However, that doesn't mean that a reconciliation will happen. For the first 3 breakups there is a pretty obvious reason why the breakup happened and whether the breaker tells the breakee, the break probably can figure it out. By using our Services or clicking I agree, you agree to our use of cookies. It's a terrible feeling just like you said just about as bad as infidelity. At the end of the day, the most important thing to remember is that no relationship is perfect. But often there's something bigger lingering under the surface that exacerbates these feelings: fear. Whether it is a relationship, a job, a purchase — it is the feeling that a different choice might be better.". Or the traditional cosmetic "do better"? If the relationship was a good one, the dumper will find out eventually that the grass isn't greener, it's just different grass and may even be a little worse than the pastures they left. Time and time again whenever a player leaves the Steel city to chase money they fall flat on their face. Cookies help us deliver our Services. Now she is with some shitty copy of me and following him across the country. Gase has publicly talked about how he hates how Bell takes his frustrations to social media rather than speaking to him. Sure not every bit works but when it does, it REALLY does. I feel like a terrible partner. Bell sat out the entire 2018 season before becoming a free agent and signing with the New York Jets in 2019. And that is the way a commited relationship will always be. Bell was also the best receiving back in football when he played his final snap in Pittsburgh, and Jets head coach Adam Game flat out refused to throw the football his way. Going through this now and this explains it perfectly. You weren't ready for what you had. Some days, she'd sit downstairs and I'd sit upstairs and we only really interacted when it was time to eat or fuck. Wish I could see more of that strange world. In my opinion, outside of infidelity, this is one of the toughest types of breakups to go through. We use cookies and other tracking technologies to improve your browsing experience on our site, show personalized content and targeted ads, analyze site traffic, and understand where our audiences come from. I … But really, we had nothing in common. New comments cannot be posted and votes cannot be cast, News & Discussion about Major Motion Pictures, Press J to jump to the feed. Just remember, it's not your fault and it's not the dumper's fault, either. You might start to have omnipresent doubts about the future of your relationship, and constantly go back and forth on whether or not breaking up is the right choice for you. I've cheated in the past and I definitely walked away from the situation having learned some tough life lessons about the grass not being greener, especially if you do love your partner. ), I really wanted either something to finally go her way, or for her to just speak her mind for once... :/. Please also read our Privacy Notice and Terms of Use, which became effective December 20, 2019.